Getting back into the groove of things….

Now that I have started blogging again and will always be blogging for Modern Dauphine….  I’m kinda really liking it.  I’ve even gotten back to writing my book again (which has been on  hiatus for like 2 months) …

Life has been interesting. Ups, downs, misunderstandings and mended friendships…. You never really truly to enjoy your day to day life until you get older, huh? Each day passes with a blink of an eye.  I really need to reach further, set even higher limits and more goals.  And then check them off my Must-Do Checklist.

Summer is almost upon us, June 20, and I’m psyched! I always loved summer – being a summer baby and all.  The obvious: Cape Code trips, beaching… short weekend trips somewhere relaxing and fun, wearing as little clothing as possible (duh!) And all those refreshing, light, yummy foods and cocktails.

Beach beach beach! I need a tan!  I’m practically see-thru…. and then some.

This weekend is my babe Kim‘s Birthday so I booked a hotel and I’m taking her to Chippendales. I think they call it “Men in Motion‘ now… haha with a special twist. I got us VIP seats in the front so we don’t have to stand and……. well I promise to take pictures ;]  We’re getting tattoos, gonna go shopping, go eat at Wahlburgers.

We always have an amazing time.  Plus I get to help pick out clothes for her, do her makeup and hair ;]  Plus when you go out with me, and I plan it, we go ALL. OUT. Got it?

Soon after my Uncle, Aunt and one of my favorite Cousins (shh) is coming for I think 3 weeks or so.  Niagara Falls and Red Sox games are a MUST. (which reminds me I have to buy tickets… it’ll just be me and the boys… haha my mom and aunt are so not into it) – I’ll definitely be taking him to some sort of July 4th celebration/party and maybe even hit up the beach with a group of people.

And then August.  I’m make sure that all my birthdays are memorable and I promise this year won’t be an exception.  INCLUDING 5 Seconds of Summer will be playing in Boston in August. UH psyched.  I just don’t know what to do yet for my birthday….. got any ideas?

It’s already been a crazy half a year (can you believe how fast that went?  Heartbreaks, crushes, enemies… yikes) – And yes there is someone I like – even though I decided to try not to talk about my love life on this blog anymore. So *crossing my fingers*

So, now let’s go dancing….. forget about the past, look forward to the future but treasure every breath and existence of the moment ♥

ps. Promise more food posts will be made as well…


When your brain can’t even fathom the craziness…..

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Recently in the past few years I have met some of the most amazing, intelligent, respectful people of my life that I hold dear to my heart.  But I’ve also met people with severely inconsiderate, narcissistic yet insecure personality traits. (Come on, haven’t we all?) Most of these “really bad ones”, I honestly assume is either schizophrenic or bipolar (isn’t almost always the common “diagnosis anyways”?).  I’m no psychiatrist, but I almost double majored in it in college so I can see the traits pretty well. So yes, since I’m not one, in plain terms I’ve been having to deal with a lot of CRAZY people.

It’s not really a hard thing to cope and deal with but it’s no walk in the park either.  Some people can be downright stubborn (and/or stupid) and just won’t leave it be.  So hopefully this post can help you deal with your own crazies you have to encounter in your life.

Things to keep in mind:
– Crazies usually start off as “normal” but you never know what will set them off.  Kind of like a time bomb with no countdown timer on it.
– They don’t listen to reason. They are already DEAD SET on what they believe is real to be real.
– Making friends and being nice may work for a hot second and then it’ll blow up in your face.
– These people will go to the lowest of lows to show their “hatred” or “crazy” towards you (I have a baseball bat and police button by my bed)
– Don’t curse. Or yell.  Or scream.  It makes you the better person. Think before you speak, and with reason.
– They’ll provoke you and make false accusations and try to recruit your friends and family onto their team.
– Like I just said, they like to LIE a lot and repeat the same thing over and over again til your brain explodes.
– They will act innocent and as the victim when YOU are the victim.
– If it gets bad don’t be scared to call for a restraining order or the local police.  In one of my cases I called my town’s police and the crazy’s town police.
– LASTLY (for now, for this may be a forever growing piece), don’t let them get into your head and mess with you.  Go about your daily life as you always do.  They’ll move on, eventually to torture their next victim once (albeit really pissed off that they can’t make you miserable) But they will.  If not, like I said, it’s police action time.

Hope that helps and if you have any input, stories, questions or anything to share with me, feel free to comment or email me!

Red Sox wins, Wahlburgers, best Memorial Day Weekend ever!


Can you believe it? Finally a post about food and adventures.  It’s been awhile but I was surprised how excited I was to start doing this again.  Plus it was just a fun two days that I had to document it and tell you guys all about it! So this long weekend I got a […]

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I don’t understand animal cruelty… or ignorant people.

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WARNING: Graphic photos and videos! Let me begin with what made me finally write this blog post. As a huge animal lover, I volunteer at Save A Dog for rescue dogs – and I donate a lot of money to stop animal cruelty and to stop animal testing – my mom, just now, wasn’t sure if she […]

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Finally back on track….

Yay one of my upcoming projects is finally back on the move…. excited.  As is my book writing.  You’d think writing a book about your life to help others who have been in your same situations – but it’s actually kind of tough reliving some of the stuff.  Life was a bit slow for awhile […]

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i want this in my life….

#Beckstin is so perfect. They are so cute. Hahah the only chick I allow to be with my Austin ;] Cuz Becky G is cute as fuck! I also want a taco now…. Starting to feel unwanted.

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He brings the nerd out in me..

I haven’t really dealt with wordpress coding…. or if I can I avoid coding in general, I had to learn it, use it, and learn more new shizz with companies but true designers HATE THAT! But someone how, a certain guy has convinced me, without very much effort to look into his old files and […]

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My tattoos.. and their meanings…

I recently just got my newest tattoo… “Bolsillo lleno de sueños” – which means “Pocketful of Dreams” – Once again I was attacked by my mother.. so I thought I would make a post about my tattoos and their meanings…. First and foremost my newest ones.  As you can see, I will not lie, yes […]

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To be Barbie…… leave skinny girls alone

i’m sure most of little girl’s dreams was to be barbie. I, myself  never had that urge, in fact I didn’t understand skinny vs fat til 8th grade and fashion until high school – thru bullying.  And then I recently saw this article.  If she was was in real life she’d be 5’9″ and 110lbs. […]

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Is it really almost May?

I’ve written posts but none have been published. The past month and a half…. why? A lot has been happening and I’ve been going through a lot of changes (cue: jokes) – And I’m still in the process of going through changes. In fact before the end of summer I’ll have my own apartment, a […]

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