Just go for it!

I’ve got things planned out.  And I did go for it, and having been… I am ready to continue down my path into my bright future!  I am so excited to see what is ahead of me.  My life has been so on track since my last relationship ended.  I found myself again, healed all that was built up inside of me, grew stronger and more determined than ever to do what I want.  I learned what I want, what I don’t want, and what I deserve.  I’m going outside of my comfort zone, my mother and I’s relationship has gotten a million times better, and I am  more focused than I ever have been on all the things I want in my life, to accomplish.

It may have taken me awhile to figure it out.  Even when I knew it was what I should do, it took a long time for it to knock me in the head. Go for it. Go for it. JUST GO FOR IT!  And if you fail, don’t lose faith.  You have to keep on believing… and keep on going.  Determination can’t stop you.  Only you can stop you.

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It’s funny that the Angel card I pulled today was also to tell me to “Do it now” Does that mean just go for it?  I should just do what I feel is right, what I want in my gut.  I agree. And you should feel that way too.  You have this one life to live, you should just DO IT, NOW!  Don’t have regrets or “what ifs”Listen to your heart and your soul.  And when in doubt, just ask  the ones who look over us.  You might not see them, but they are watching over you, and deep down you will have the answer.

So do it, go out and do it now (okay maybe not literally).  But what you want, what your drive is gearing you towards, do it.

Onto some more fun things…. I had a fabulous Sunday today!  Woke up, had a fun day in the sun with softball with B.

I did some Pokémon catching – and I wasn’t the only one there doing that either, haha.

But the Pokémon kept coming……. (when I finally got connection to it….)

Good thing Didi is just in a stroller (haha to Kelly for mentioning that)…. cuz when I walk her in her stroller I play Pokémon Go!  My lazy silly little puppy princess!

The night ended with a margarita… and watching Goosebumps…. which is horribly awesome.  It’s nostalgia… it was so predictable and corny…. and seeing Jack Black playing R.L.Stine was hilarious!  But it reminds me of back in the day when I read those books… and even watched the horrible tv show hahahaha.  Either way, good times :] I also got a good nap inbetween.

Dear Heart,

What are you trying to tell me?  You’re telling me that everything is gonna be okay.  What am I not getting at and seeing?  You’ve been stabbed, manipulated, torn apart, hurt, broken, in love, in pain, everything…. and yet you still keep secrets from me.  Teach me, please, teach me how to listen to what you have to say to me.  I’ve already learned so much from my past, but there is always more things to learn.

Sometimes everyone needs to take a step back and ask themselves what their heart is saying to them and figure out what they truly want.  The truth is there, the future is there.  It will never change, but one sees only what they want to see, but you need to learn how to see what is truly there.

“Love actually is all around” – Love Actually

That’s something we need to learn.  But love can hurt, and it can be happiness. That’s also something we need to learn.  To truly love is to have lost… to be loved and to love others, you need to first fully love yourself.

“Notice how the moon affects your energy and manifestations, and capitalize upon these cycles.”

Things are ever changing… and yet somethings are like Groundhogs Day over and over again. Déjà vu over and over. Today was a great day, Archangel Haniel, thank you for bringing me this.  I have noticed how things I do affect my life in certain ways and it keeps happening over and over again.  There are the negative things and then the positive and I am staying focused on the positive part.

So here I am…. realizing the things in my life that are going on…. and I will continue, conquer and live my life and be happy.

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Before I forget I just want to mention something I saw today…. I pray that this forest fire that was on Mass Pike didn’t do more harm than what I already saw.  The pics do no justice it covered a pretty big chunk by the highway – I’m guessing from the extreme heat (95+) and as we slowly passed it the flames just got bigger and bigger.  Strangely, I saw NO cops, NO fire engines, NADA!  What?  And I saw NO news about it tonight while checking on my phone.  So weird.  Hope the damage wasn’t too bad.

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And now for a little fun.  Because who wants to end a blog post with something scary and negative, right?

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I had a very mother/daughter bonding session today.  With not only my own mother and I, but Didi and I as well.  Pets make people happier, live longer, stay healthier…. you laugh more.  They’re just your own little babies – forever.  And I love my little furbaby.  It’s funny because I have been considering getting some more cats/puppies to give Didi some company.  That or do more work at the shelter I work at.

I was gonna go to a “YappyHour” – get it? GET IT? ^_____^ in town today but it was way too hot for an outdoor event and Didi would totally get sick from the heat.  I drove by the event and saw that it was practically empty. Hello!!!??? Excessive heat caused a forest fire today!  I hope they reschedule because it sounds like fun and great to meet new people.

And remember people…. adopt a rescue animal!  There are tons in need of homes because of many situations, a lot of them bad, so please, open up your heart – it’s a win-win situation!

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Didi and I on our walk in her new stroller… and me catching Pokémon! Hahahahahaha…. WE GOT TO CATCH THEM ALL!!!!!

XOXO

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Observe yourself and those around yourself… See the light, and all will be harmonious! 

Sometimes, one can become too self involved and forget to help those around them in need. It’s not their fault, they just become absorbed in their own world, sometimes their own fantasy that they forget that the world does not evolve around them.  They forget what is happening around them when they just need to open up their eyes to see that so much is going on.

Observe. You may be missing out on a lot of stuff.  A friend has asked me to read her multiple times why she hasn’t found a boyfriend yet and when will she.  And each time, the results were the same… she is too involved with her work, her own life, she doesn’t realize what’s around her and probably has missed out on many opportunities.  This is just an example.  It can be finding a date, a significant other, a job, anything.

Take a breather and look around you… you only life, this life, once.  Don’t miss out.

Archangel Ariel came to me again and gave me the advice of Prosperity. So Archangel Raguel has come to me today, as well to tell me that “We angels are opening the hearts of everyone involved.  Arguments and conflicts are being resolved now.”…..  Hopefully all is at peace now.  All the sorts of relationships with exes, my mother, friends, they should be all good by now.  I pray that they are.

Don’t forget to see the light, inside you.  It’s the positivity, the optimism inside yourself that people tend to forget.  Leave the darkness behind you.  It’s not healthy to stay in the dark.  I went through periods like that, and while I still tend to do so, I remember to come back out into the light.  Bring out my inner light, my inner me.  “See the light within yourself and everyone else.”

I always try to see the good in everyone – which often tends to get me into trouble.  But I can’t help it.  Everyone has some good in them and I want to help fix whatever is broken in them.  And the first thing they have to do, is to look deep within themselves and see that glow, even just a mere candlelight, and not to ever let it go out.  Nurturing that light and having it grow bigger within yourself is what will inevitably bring you into enlightenment, and become who you were truly meant to be.

Happy Friday everyone and stay safe, especially playing Pokémon Go! Hmmm…. and playing it drunk haha :]

True Happiness comes from Simplicity

Today I was reminded of living my life with “Simplicity”.  I have changed a lot the past few weeks, the past few months and even the past few years.  I used to party and live my life to excess.  I indulged way too much in so many ways, now looking back, I don’t get why… but I have lived through it and it’s apart of my life.  I will never have to live my life saying “what if” or regret not doing anything.

But it’s all been done and all behind me.  My future is in front of me, looking forward, simplicity does make me happier.  There was a point where I was eating out at luxurious restaurants every night of the week and going to the hottest night spots as well.  I lived and traveled in gorgeous crazy amazing places.  But I have learned to be humble (and save my money and others – haha).

My life is now devoted to my family, God, my friends, my spirituality (and my newly found gifts), work and most importantly – constantly improving and learning to love myself.  Oh wait, I forgot, and my little Didi (she makes a special appearance in this post later now hehe).

And yet, Archangel Ariel, reminds me by saying “Your materiel needs are provided as you follow your intuition and manifest your dreams into reality.” is that the there are still the basics that we need in life and as long as I follow my dreams and my goals in life, they will come to me.

Prosperity.  I have another project in the works.  Right now I have my design work, my card/crystal pendulum reading/healing and now…. *surprise* being a business partner with one of my best girl friends.  She just came to me with this offer today so I don’t want to say too much just yet (I also don’t know too much yet)

That’s the thing.  The less you go “I want I want I want” the more “You get you get you get”

A famous author was in an interview once and he was asked what he wanted in his next life… and he said “I want to be poor, ugly, sad, nothing, etc….”  The host was confused and questioned why he said that.  He replied, “Because the more you keep saying how much you want something, you tend not to get it.”

BUT I’m also not saying to NOT have goals.  You NEED goals! You just don’t have to feel sorry for yourself or think that you “deserve” the things you get.  You need to earn what you get for it to be true.  The people in the world who just take and take and get stuff because they feel entitled and without the sweat and work behind it, I feel sorry for them and they will never be happy.

Hard work = Success = Gratification and Happiness

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Today I watched the movie, finally, “Unbroken” – it teared me up, my hurt ached, but it made me more motivated than ever.  People who don’t know this true story of USA Olympian, who had sort of a “problem child” sort of childhood until he found his calling, running… the athlete Louis “Louie” Zamperini.

He then survived in a raft for 47 days after his bomber crash landed in the ocean during World War II.  When finally “rescued” he was sent to a series of Japanese prisoner of war camps.  He was tortured, belittled, etc…. but he never gave up hope and he kept on going.  There was a point in the movie where he wanted to kill the commanding officer of the camp.  A fellow prisoner said not to, and that the true revenge would be to survive this.

And he did.  And it was amazing, he and the other prisoners ended up being saved after the war ended and was brought back to America where he married, had kids, and even went back to Japan to forgive his captures. All but the commanding officer would meet him.  He knew that forgiveness was better than revenge.  He even went back to Japan to run in the Olympics when he was 80, carrying the torch.

He recently just passed in 2014.  He is truly an inspiration.  Never give up, no matter how hard you have it, if you believe, it will be better.  And don’t live with hate, it won’t make the world a better place and you will just be living your life with misery.

And with that said….

How can you not smile with this cute face around.  Stay positive, focused, love yourself, love others and all will be well!  It’s the simple things in life….

XOXO

BTW, I haven’t listened to this song in the longest time and it popped up on my iTunes the other day.

So one more last bit of advice… especially to the ones going thru hard relationships and break-ups right now.  You don’t need to be in a relationship.  You need to just love yourself and know that the ones who love you, love you and accept you for who you are.  Don’t let a significant other treat you wrong or try to change you.  Don’t give in to the negativity when you know deep down it’s wrong for you.  No one deserves that.

Love you all!!!